Holy Matrimony

United in Christ's Love

Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman. Through this sacrament, Christ strengthens spouses to love one another faithfully, generously, and permanently.


What Does the Catholic Church Teach?

"The matrimonial covenant... has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament." (CCC 1601)

Christian marriage reflects Christ's faithful love for His Church and is ordered toward the good of the spouses and the gift of children.


What Does Scripture Say?

"Therefore what God has joined together, no human being must separate." (Mark 10:9)

Marriage is part of God's loving plan from the beginning and is blessed by Christ.


Why Is Matrimony Important?

Marriage helps spouses grow in holiness together and serves as a witness of God's love to the world.


Interested in Receiving This Sacrament?

Congratulations on your engagement! We are honored that you are considering celebrating the Sacrament of Matrimony at St. James. Marriage preparation is an important opportunity to grow together in faith as you prepare for your life together.


Couples planning to marry at St. James must complete the Diocese's marriage preparation requirements, which should begin at least nine months before the desired wedding date.


To begin the process, please contact the parish office at 623-581-0707 to schedule an appointment with Fr. Ben. Both fiancé and fiancée must be present for this initial meeting.


Please bring the following to your appointment:

  • Baptism certificate for each fiancé
  • Confirmation certificate for each fiancé
  • Any documentation related to a previous annulment, if applicable


If either party has been previously married, please bring any annulment documentation so Fr. Ben can review your situation and guide you through the next steps, if needed.


This preparation process also applies to couples who are civilly married and wish to have their marriage convalidated (recognized) in the Catholic Church.


We look forward to accompanying you as you prepare to enter into the sacred vocation of Christian marriage.